4 Simple Steps To Getting Private Money

Hope everyone had a great weekend!

As promised last week, I want to give some quick tips for those of you who are just starting out and looking to secure private money for your deals.  Securing private money has become a critical part of our business, particularly since I left my 9-to-5 back in May.  It’s awesome to be able to provide solid returns to others and also get flexible terms for yourself with deals.

I’ve done every single thing on this list so I’m not suggesting that you do anything I haven’t done myself and found super useful.  Here goes:

Step #1: Use a memory jogger to create a lengthy list of people to have conversations with about private money. Do not say “Oh, they don’t have any money.” Don’t disqualify anyone…just write the names down.  Remember that everyone you know knows someone else, so you shouldn’t consider anyone off limits (unless of course its a person who you don’t want to associate with at all for some reason like your crazy uncle Joe. LOL!)

Step #2: Create a private money 15-second value statement (also known as an elevator pitch) as well as a presentation that provides an overview of your company and private money program. Really think through what your needs are (transactional funds for back to back closings, short term funds for rehabs, long term funds for rentals, all of the above?) and make sure to give some sample deals.

You want to be able to succinctly state within 10-15 seconds how you can provide value to anyone you meet and you also want to have easy to understand documentation to walk through with people when you sit down for an appointment.

Step #3: Make a plan to consistently reach out to 2 or 3 people every single week to have a conversation about private money.  There are many different ways to approach this:

  • Request to get together informally for lunch or coffee to catch up — inevitably what will happen is you’ll ask “So what’s going on with you?” and after you listen first, the other person will reciprocate and ask what’s going on with you.  Here’s where you have an opportunity to share what’s going on in your real estate investing business and casually mention the private lending program.  The best way to share (in my opinion) is through story telling.  Telling a story about a private lender you’ve worked with before and how ecstatic they are about the program, or how you are looking to be a private lender yourself (and how that works), or even a story about someone you know who is working successfully with private lenders (if you’ve never secured a lender before).  Storytelling is powerful.

  • Ask someone to give you feedback on your presentation — you’re going to want to do this.  This isn’t a “trick” ….the truth is that you really need to practice with people you feel comfortable with and get their input on how you can improve and also get used to the types of questions and/or objections that people will have.  The cool byproduct of this is that the person you’re presenting to will learn about your program and may actually be interested or know others who would be.

  • Take the direct approach — I’d use this approach strategically.  It all depends on the relationship you have with the person and whether you’re pretty confident that the person will be interested and already is pretty knowledgeable about real estate investing.  I’ve definitely used this approach before and simply called and said something very direct such “Hey Rod, this may or may not be something you’re interested in, but I immediately thought about you….I’d like to share how our company is working with individuals who are tired of the ups and downs of the stock market to give them solid returns on their investments backed by real estate.  We’ve been getting a great response from folks and I want to make sure you know about it. When do you have 20 minutes available so we can discuss?”

Step #4: Follow up and use your presentation to share the key points about your private money program.  You’ll find that some people aren’t interested (or don’t have any funds to invest), some who just aren’t ready now, some who will be excited about the opportunity and are ready to go, and others who won’t invest but are willing to share with others (and may be a great source of referrals for you). Continue to follow up and share your progress as months go by because you never know when someone may be ready.

The key with this is consistency.  You have to make these conversations a priority because if you’re not talking to people, you’re not making progress.  Truth be told, my husband and I lacked consistency when we first learned about private money as a strategy so it took us quite a while to find lenders, but once we focused on it we found 3 in a short amount of time, and now we have others who are at various stages of interest as well. Again, its all about consistency.

You know what else?  It’s also about BELIEF. You have to know that there are people with money who will be overjoyed with what you have to offer.  People have been hammered by the stock market and money market and CD rates are laughable. You have to know this and be confident in these facts. If you walk around saying there’s no money out there or nobody would want to invest their money in you and your business, you won’t get any of it!

P.S. I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention that my private money mentor Patrick Riddle (along with Susan Lassiter-Lyons and Trevor Mauch) with the Private Money Blueprint provides a ton of free content that will provide you with a rock solid foundation to get out there and take action with regards to getting private money. You can also use their private lender presentation and customize it for your company just like I did (per my tip #2 above). You can get it all here.

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  1. AnotherSteph
    612 days ago

    Thanks, Shae. Your post is very timely. Really helpful info!

    I just ordered PMBP yesterday and I’ve been listening to the modules on-line. I cannot wait to get the course!

    Steph


  2. Shae
    612 days ago

    Hey Steph, you’ll really get a lot from the course. They overdelivered in my opinion. Looking forward to hearing about your success with getting private money. I’m no expert (yet!), but if you ever have questions as you’re moving forward feel free to post them and I’ll happily share what I can.


  3. Shae
    612 days ago

    Also, just another comment….I mention reaching out to 2 or 3 people a week. I think that’s a great start when you’re getting practice talking to people, but at some point once you’ve gained momentum and it comes easy to you, you can do way more than that on a weekly basis.

    I know that I’ll be stepping up my game shortly but right now I’m still focusing on the habit of consistency with talking to people. I’m focused on 3-4 weekly right now. My friends Julie & Dave over at LifeasRealEstateInvestors.com talk to 30 people a month! WOW!


  4. Carey_PA
    612 days ago

    Hmmmm this post sounds awfully familiar….in fact it sounds just like a conversation that you and I had recently on the telephone…word for word even lol

    Fantastic post Shae. Oh and I want to point out to folks that storytelling is a great idea…and you can tell stories in any way possible.

    For instance, let’s take me for example….I got a private lender for my atm business, right? Now when I tell someone a story about getting a private lender I don’t have to mention oh yeah..it was for my atm business not my real estate business. Know what I mean? I mean I’m the type of person that would tell them exactly what it was for if they asked…but the bottom line is it’s a real person lending money from their ira to me. There’s my story.

    So you can use the story in any way you seem fit I think is my point. And like Shae mentioned you can use OTHER people’s stories.

    You could even say “and yeah I know this girl who got a private money lender to use their self-directed ira for her ATM business!” Just so your potential private money lender can see that folks are doing it and they’re lending this money for all kinds of stuff and they don’t have to feel like the oddball if they want to do it.

    Ok enough rambling. I’m off to bed.


  5. Marcel Umphery
    611 days ago

    Shae this is my first entry to your blog. And this was really the first article I read. You really laid out 4 really good steps with a ton of actionable content that any new or seasoned investor can use. My partner and I actually started raising private money about a year ago after attending a seminar and then just opening up our mouths to family and friends. I look forward in getting that kit you recommended I have heard many GREAT things about Susan and Patrick. Keep sharing and I look forward in learning more from you and sharing too. Take Care


  6. Shae
    611 days ago

    @Carey, I forgot to tell you that I recorded that conversation I had with you….my bad. Just kidding! LOL! Thanks for the additional comments….storytelling is awesome.

    @Marcel, thanks for stopping by my blog and commenting! Everything good that you’ve heard about Patrick and Susan is true…I’ve learned a ton from them and I’m getting ready to learn more from Susan on how to effectively pool funds from multiple investors as I’ve never done that before. Glad to hear that you and are your partner are having success with private money lenders as well. It’s definitely the way to go!


  7. mobilehomegurl
    610 days ago

    Great post, Shae! This is very good information for those who are interested in the mechanics of private money and how to go about looking for it.

    Early in my mobile home investing career, I met an investor who funded all of his mobile home deals with private money – almost 50 of them. He told me he always paid his private lender first and never used the left over money for himself – it all went back into the business. Though, he was able to keep the down payment which helped add to the business income.

    In the beginning, it was only about $50 per month extra. But, he told me after he paid off his private lender (after 2-3 years, very small amount – only borrowed 3k-4k per deal) – it started adding up, about $200-$250 per month per deal after the private lender was paid off. His private lender was receiving 10% from him while he was charging Lonnie’s typical 12.75% to his end buyer – so he made some $ on the spread. He told me he probably couldn’t get as far in his career without the help of a private lender.

    On the other hand, even earlier in my REI career I met an investor who had gotten out of the rat race – he told me it was not a good idea to use private lenders b/c it just made things complicated. He told me just play this like the cash flow game. Save up $, find a piece of property and buy it.

    He went on to tell me using private lenders usually involved friends and family and mixing friends and family w/business is just not a good combination. And, he said there’s nothing wrong with putting 10% down (w/saved money) and buying a piece of property using traditional financing – that’s the way it’s always done. This was during the time where financing was easier to obtain.

    Looking back on both perspectives, I can see where private money can come in and possibly help those seeking financing especially during these times with financing being extremely hard to obtain. It’s not impossible but there are more obstacles and roadblocks than ever. And, I know it’s a major roadblock for those looking to buy multiple properties as there is a limit on the number of loans one can obtain through traditional financing.

    I think this post is very timely with the market and all. Thanks for sharing, Shae! :)


  8. Esi
    610 days ago

    Love this post. Like I told you before, I will be adding private money to my portfolio soon for my building wealth strategy, so this will come handy. Thanks for sharing and oh, expect more convos about this ;)


  9. Shae
    610 days ago

    @Rachel, thanks for your comments! As with everything else…different strokes for different folks I guess! In both cases, the investors found success and they just found it differently.

    I mix business with personal all the time because I don’t really compartmentalize my world like that. Don’t get me wrong…I practice discretion (and trust my gut which I know is God telling me “don’t go there!” or “go ahead and do it!”) so I’m not going to do business with just anybody — friend, family or otherwise…but I think that when people have the attitude that things will be complicated and say that they are complicated, then its inevitably going to be…well, complicated.

    Thanks for the thoughtful contributions and discussion as always, Rachel!

    @Esi, thanks! You’ll be able to do some serious damage (in a good way) up there in Michigan!


  10. Shae
    610 days ago

    One more thing…for those who are leery of talking to “friends and family”, when you do the memory jogger exercise you’ll see that many of the people on your list are just loose associations so don’t let that be a roadblock, ok?


  11. AnotherSteph
    610 days ago

    Thanks, Shae. I’ll definitely ask you questions, if I have them. I am really excited.

    Julie and Dave talk to 30 people a month, wow? Now that’s impressive. I thought 2-3 a month was a lot!

    Steph


  12. Shae
    610 days ago

    @Steph, yep they are rockstars…however feel free to take baby steps if that’s what it takes to be consistent!


  13. Angela Benjamin
    609 days ago

    Hi Shae, thanks for the tips. I attended Alan Cowgill’s Bootcamp a couple of months ago, and am preparing for my first luncheon next month. I should have done this years ago!!!.


  14. Shae
    609 days ago

    Hey Angela, my pleasure. Thanks for stopping by and commenting! I wish you well with your luncheon. By the way, I love your avatar :-)


  15. Angela Benjamin
    609 days ago

    Thanks Shae, I’ll let you know how it goes!